So now that we’ve established how many of you would suck a dick for your specified price, how many of you would let another man suck your cock? Would you let him do it for free or would you charge for it? Would you let him do it for free but only under certain conditions? Lemmy know what you think! 😉 (FYI not looking for hookups)
i am gay and i have always struggled with this question, because i have absolutely sucked straight men off. but like… that’s not straight is it?
Well, to be more accurate, you sucked off men who claimed to be straight. There’s a lot of wiggle room in that.
Nope. I’ve tried a couple times. Couldn’t stay hard.
I think sexuality is definitely a spectrum, but I appear to be 100% on the “straight” end of that spectrum.
Fun relevant story: I had a roommate who was a trans woman. She was totally into me, and (issues with fucking roommates aside), I had zero interest. Then, she got surgery. The whole shebang, top, bottom, adams apple, face, everything. And after all the bruising and stuff went away I caught myself looking at her sometimes thinking “oh wow she’s looking hot”. I dunno if it was the surgery or gym or what but she got an amazing ass and liked walking around in short shorts.
She was a fucking psycho tho so we never did anything and she eventually moved out.
Anyway, I guess I’d let a dude suck my flaccid dick for a price, not sure what that would be but I can’t imagine any guys would be interested.
Hypothetically, or in reality?
Because I’m sure I could come up with (heh) situations where I’d be willing. But they aren’t realistic.
Here, in the real world, I’ve gotten offers from dudes that were absolute smoke shows. Of pretty much all types, though I usually got more bears, otters, and twinks overall. I’ve never been sucked off by a guy.
But I don’t have some kind of moral objection to it. It also doesn’t gross me out or anything, I’ve seen it happen to other guys in person, and it’s just meh. Doesn’t turn me on, doesn’t bother me.
I’m not sure I could maintain an erection long enough though. For me, part of what works is being fully engaged with a partner. Sight, sound, scent, touch, taste, the whole sensory involvement. And guys don’t arouse me (unfortunately). Again, I’ve had hot guys make serious passes, and there’s no spark in my brain that turns the arousal cycle on.
Like, get it hard, then the man lays lips on it? Yeah, I could make that happen, I’m sure. But going through the entire session? I don’t think so. Maybe if I kicked back and stayed deep in fantasy, but that never works out with women, so why would it with guys? If I try to fantasize during head with women, it distracts me too much, and I lose interest. Like I said, I work best with full sensory engagement; it’s why I’m not usually super into head on the receiving end. I like it, don’t get me wrong, but it takes the right situation for it to go beyond foreplay and into an event.
But, maybe I’m wrong, and it would work fine, I dunno but I don’t have the interest to try.
Money wouldn’t help make it happen, but if it was for money, it would be with the same caveat that the dollar amount would be huge.
I know, I’m no fun. But it takes more than just genital stimulation to keep my interest. If that’s all I want, I’d rather just masturbate than use someone like a sex toy. That just isn’t my thing
There’s always aphrodisiacs such as Viagra or cock rings etc. to help you maintain an erection. 😉
True, but if I’m doing that, there’s still a matter of motivation.
Why would I do that? Who are they that I’m willing to take unnecessary medication or partially bind my privates?
It isn’t impossible, just not feasible
Perhaps you had dry spells, balls are turning blue, no ladies around that you can fuck, jerking just isn’t enough, had a few drinks, found a willing man, and decided it sounded like a good idea lol.
Idk, I’m just making up stupid scenarios at this point lol 😆
Nah
I’m just not attracted to blokes
When I was single, I had loads of gay guys offering to “help” me
I’d rather just have a wank
I’m no prude, I’m a filthy pervert, but I’m just not into dudes. I have often wished I was, because it would be a whole new world of experiences, but it’s just not my thing
I would only consent to this for a significant amount of money. Like, at least $100k. I’d also set up specific rules about how the BJ will be for a set time limit, since I almost certainly won’t cum, and I likely won’t even get hard. Also, I might squirm in disgust the whole time.
I have nothing against gay people, and I support gay rights, etc. But I am straight, and the idea of sexual contact with another man creates a visceral sense of disgust in me. Sorry to the “everyone’s a little bit bi” crowd. I’m not. Get over it.