Mostly just random BDSM gear I have gathered over the years:

Lots of bondage rope, obviously. Most of it is the cheap stuff from Amazon tho, I would love to upgrade to something nicer.

Two pairs of leather handcuffs, they work for ankles too.

Two pairs of nipple clamps. Normal ones and clover clamps (they bite harder when pulled). Putting clothespins on my nipples as a horny teenager is how I originally started discovering BDSM and I’m still a huge fan of nipple play.

A ball gag. I’m personally not a fan of the drooling and stuff it causes, but some people find that very hot.

Wartenberg wheel, rolling it over sensitive body parts can cause a surprising amount of pain considering it’s originally designed as a medical tool.

A shock collar (PiShock, but nowadays I would recommend looking into OpenShock instead). It can be controlled remotely over the internet, allowing long-distance play. I sometimes boast about having a high pain tolerance but that thing can make me beg in no time. I can take single shocks even in the higher settings but getting shocked in the same spot again and again makes the pain way worse every time.

Blindfolds. I don’t exactly remember where I got them but I think most of them are just regular sleeping masks… But hey, they work so why pay for anything more expensive?

Other random bits and pieces I can’t remember right now. Many normal household items are useful too. Belts and clothespins are first that come to mind.

Everything I have is for my wife, and she is my sex toy.

• A pussy lotus flower, it’s a sort of vibrating, sucking thing that produces orgasms in 30 seconds when applied directly to the clit

• A rather small "4 vibrating penetrator in metallic purple, which was very popular until pinkie moved in. We still use it a lot but mostly as a clit vibrator

• A rather large pink suction dildo with realistic head, veins and balls called Pinkie that was supposed to be "8 but is closer to "10. It took some gentle practice to get it to fit into her at first but nowadays she can take it all to the balls. She likes to use it, either suctioned to a wall while she spitroasts herself on it with a dick in her mouth, or with me fucking her with it while she sucks off one of our friends

• A simple blindfold, headphones and some cotton rope cuffs that I made, that we use to tie her arms to the bedhead and blindfold her so she doesn’t know who is fucking her when I have one or more friends over to take turns on her.

• a kind of ribbed corset thing if that counts, that she likes to wear that sort of lift and push out her tits a bit but don’t cover them, that she can wear under her T-shirts so her tits bulge out even more than normal, and keeps her nips visible when they are hard. We both like her to wear it out in public, especially when grocery shopping, so we can watch men staring at her tits

3 chastity cages, 1 dildo/strap-on and a small but plug.

Just some clothes-pins. I’m not into much in the way of gear, but when I do me some pain does help.

• two realistic suction cup dildos
• straight dildo
• small bullet vibrator
• two straight vibrators
• rabbit vibrator
• couples vibrator
• butt plug
• fuzzy handcuffs

For my bf:

• vibrating cock ring
• fleshlight