• MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com
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    14 days ago

    I mean before even thinking of thinking about trying it you need to have a partner you can trust and as these situations are agreed upon before hand, there are usually agreed upon rules involved. Like “spank and slap me, don’t punch and choke me”. Beas with all things trust and communication before hand, and being a vigilant partner always.

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      14 days ago

      I just don’t think that for me it’s possible to trust anyone in that way. Not as in I don’t trust them, but rather my instincts can’t be ignored 😅