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21 days agoCommunication is the most important thing- I was feeling stuck in this pattern I my relationship of many years, feeling like all I could do was “give” the physical intimacy while my partner “received” it. After some conversation and a couple of false starts, she is doing a wonderful job at taking the initiative more and now it feels like more of a 50/50 thing. My point is, it’s definitely out there but you may need to work with someone to tell them what you want And be patient while your partner is trying something that may be new and unfamiliar.
I love flickers- their little mustaches are so cute!