

Good partners of any gender want equality, emotional vulnerability, good communication, and mutual support.
Shitty partners want gender roles. When you have a realistic view of the world then you understand that people have flaws, strong points, and layers of complexity.
The good news is there are plenty of good partners out there. The bad news is that the only way to really firm up what you want, offer, and need, is trial and error.
I’m not into cartoons, but like, if cartoon people were real people Velma would be it for me. Smart women are sexy.