I’ve had a few experiences. First I went to a private gloryhole which purported to be a woman, but may very well have been a catfish. It caused me some distress at the time because I wasn’t really comfortable with being bi yet. Did still get me off though because I have a kink for anonymous encounters and people acting slutty.
Later when my fiancee and I were dating we went together so I could watch them suck someone at the hole. They sucked two people and then we fucked for a peeper. One of my favorite memories of our early exploits. We tried again years later, with me in a different booth to come in and put my cock through the hole later, but the first guy to enter the booth next to my fiancee’s kept pushing to pay them money to come to a gangbang somewhere else, so we left and haven’t really been back.
I’m really interested in trying again at a better locale. An actual swinger club with better upkeep would be ideal because the fantasy is incredible but the years of prudes shutting smut shops down has made the scene way worse at stores.
Switchy pleasure Dom so for sure it is both. Primarily for my partners pleasure, but their pleasure is my pleasure so it is selfish as well