I had a female partner who loved to post nudes on image hosting sites etc. it really got her off. I admired her self confidence and bravery. Which in turn got me off. I could never get myself to do it, but had respect for those that could. Like they were on another level sexually or something.
Like, hey there… look at this, and let it make you feel something.
I’ts more popular today than ever, but I feel like the introduction of money for content changed everything. Im not judging the concept, people gotta pay bills. But it seems to have drowned out the ones who used to do it for their own pleasure. For the thrill.
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I love posting for the thrill of it. I don’t think I’d ever charge for my content. I’m just enjoying showing off anonymously and I have the best orgasms after I do. 🤷🏻♀️
Never stop. I’ve just taken a peep and I will be peeping again. Such a beautiful ass.
tl;dr: we get you, we (and she) do it for free and for the thrill of it, and actually decided not to charge for our content ever, because that would spoil the fun and make us some kind of employees
Well she (and we) do it for the thrill of it, although we use a couple’s profile bc our main “concept” is to be a exhibitionist couple, buuuut sometimes it’s easier to also make some female solo content (and because we’re long distance most of the time and people would most likely prefer to see her lol), so we are a combination of couple and female profile. She loves to be seen and gets horny thinking other men find her smoking hot (and maybe jerk off to her), but she told me that the part that she loves the most is that at the end of the day she’s mine. I think it’s some kind of exclusive exhibitionism fetish, if it makes sense haha. She likes to know other people find her hot, but also gets off at the idea that other people can’t have her, only me, that no matter how much she shows off online, only I can taste her. And let me tell you, that’s awesome for me too lol, it’s very hot knowing she likes to tease other people but only gives herself and submits totally to me
While we considered the idea of having an OnlyFans and such, we decided not to and made a vow to not charge for our content, to keep doing it for fun. Because yeah getting money for recording us fucking sounds nice, but it’s kind of a second job, and that would be very time consuming (I mean, doing this for free rn is time consuming sometimes lol). Also charging money would mean that, if we want to get anything, we’d have to become some sort of product and submit to the will of the people who pay (like doing whatever someone who pays asks, or customs, or chats, etc) and we don’t like the idea. We like to be the ones in control of our content, what we record, how, where and when, and also how we edit it, when and where we post it, and even if we post it in the first place. And tbh, the best way to have that kind of control is not charging for it, because that way people don’t feel entitled to our content. But sometimes there’s some weird people who somehow think they are our bosses or something (even when we do it for free). For example today we were planning to upload another couple video… until we read a comment in a Discord server we are of a man that basically said “hey cutie, post something with your bf asap, I wanna jerk off”. We were like, dude, we’re not your employees, we don’t owe you posting anything, if we post something is because we want to, and we’ll do whenever we want, not when you do. And then she got mad and told me not to post anything today, so well, everyone has to wait some time for some new couple content (tbf our last couple video didn’t do too well here, so I don’t think it’ll be a problem)
I’ve actually seen your work before haha your wife is very sexy, and the confidence is everything. Thanks for contributing
You’re welcome, we’re glad people enjoy our (and her) content
Thanks for the reply guys, you put it perfectly, the word I’ve been searching for is “product” that’s what kills it for me. It’s like seeing a beautiful tree in nature and then someone 3D printing the same one and putting it the mall. Glad you’re still getting your kicks.
There tend to be a lot of societal consequences for sexually eager women. You can get easily fired from most jobs if they find nudes online.
Also, stalkers and creeps are a big thing. Exhibitionism is often understood as consent for everything.
It fucking sucks, but people don’t behave. I’m not a woman, but it’s also something I have to be concerned about.
You speak the truth, but my point was more around those who do it for the pleasure vs those who do it purely for money. My wonder is if there are still those who do it for their own pleasure despite the fact that they could earn money for doing it. If that makes sense?
/r/gonewild was popular about 10-15 years ago. Though now it’s just women advertising their onlyfans.
Fetlife use to be the same, now it’s advertising onlyfans.
I post on Fetlife simply for an exhibitionist thrill amongst like-minded community. But yes, it does seem like OnlyFans is on half the profiles these days. :(
It really made Fet less genuine
Less? yes it did! Every profile now has an onlyfans link, along with a throne link. Months ago I did even passed by a post on reddit, asking how to promote on fetlife.
People are stupid, humanity is stupid(always including me), we care only for money, and that’s how they saw onlyfans, an opportunity to make money, to become rich. You say Hi, they send you OF link now day. You send a Hello, and an Indian scammer replies “Hello”.
Yeah, and it changes it completely for me personally. I could very well afford to subscribe but it does nothing for me, literally takes the “passion” out of it. But I could be wrong and each to their own
Back when I was on reddit /r/nofans was a good spot. They’d ban posters for advertising on other subs even. Amateurs only.
Hmmm… If only I wasn’t banned
Sure. My wife posts around here for the thrill of it. I love that she gets off on that. She is quite adventurous and we get into all kinds of shenanigans together.
I don’t mind that other people make money doing the same thing. Good on them.
My woman does
Her confidence has grown so much since she started posting, and it’s wonderful to see her blossoming
It takes a lot of confidence, cool that she’s benefiting from others pleasure
Well, my partner occasionally will. So that’s at least one adventurous lady left out there sharing the fun just cause!
Long may she enjoy! I think my true interest in it, despite seeing TnA is that i could never do it, there is an admiration and wonder of how it feels to do so!
I hope so. There is very few original content OC on the Lemmy communities related to nudes and sex. The most popular or active communities are flooded by a bunch of posters/bots with content harvested on the internet. Very boring.
I’d like to see some more funny communities
I’d like to create the equivalent here of r/nutscapes, but I have no idea how to!
I think you hit the nail on the head. There are people who would post it for the thrill, but it’s been said many times before “If you’re good at something, never do it for free”. So why give out nudes for free when you can make money from it?
Granted if people would pay to see my dick I would most likely charge for it. That being said, personally as a viewer I find it far less arousing the moment I find out it’s for money. In my mind it, which could be a complete misconception, it removes the element of pleasure that the poser gets from it. I only have my ex as a reference but she just loved that men would be ogling her naked body. That was the payoff, which to me was very unique and sexy and confident.
Humans are complicated creatures. We’re capable of holding duel opposing views on something at once.
Indeed we are, I find it so fascinating how so many of us hide our true sexuality and desires. Everyone out here pretending that sex is not top 3 priorities of every day since puberty lol.
💯 agree
