Can’t say that I have. I’ve always felt any of my intimate partners were more than I deserved in the first place, so there would be little point to it.

Hasn’t really happened. I’m happy with who I’m with.

A REAL someone else? Never. A vague situation other than what’s going on IRL? Hmm, maybe 1/4 of the time, whenever I don’t feel like I can cum without it? Thinking good thoughts helps so much in that situation.

And with my ex most of the time because he liked best to get me off with oral, and that, while physically stimulating, takes my head out of the game and it’s easier to get off with fantasy.

Not really, actually it kinda is the opposite for me. Whenever I see porn or sex videos of other people, ofc I find it hot and arousing and all that and get horny bc of the girls in the videos, but I always end up fantasizing doing whatever I’m watching with my girl, and that actually makes me even hornier haha. The idea of doing things that look so hot in video with my dear gf makes my heart pound hard and it makes me excited because I can actually try it with her, and if I send the video she’ll likely find them as hot as I do and be totally okay with doing it ourselves (and maybe record it haha). Sometimes that fantasizing helps me cum

My partner is amazing. No need to think of anyome else. Actually I’ve never thought of any person in particular when by myself either. My fantasies don’t rely on a person i guess. Sure, i’ve looked at the face of some porn performer at times. But never do i feel a connection to that person and i forget them the second i look away. Really the only one i have an intimate connection with is my partner, when we are together.

With my ex, frequently. With my gf I don’t need to.

I think we all have at one point in time.