A REAL someone else? Never. A vague situation other than what’s going on IRL? Hmm, maybe 1/4 of the time, whenever I don’t feel like I can cum without it? Thinking good thoughts helps so much in that situation.
And with my ex most of the time because he liked best to get me off with oral, and that, while physically stimulating, takes my head out of the game and it’s easier to get off with fantasy.
A REAL someone else? Never. A vague situation other than what’s going on IRL? Hmm, maybe 1/4 of the time, whenever I don’t feel like I can cum without it? Thinking good thoughts helps so much in that situation.
And with my ex most of the time because he liked best to get me off with oral, and that, while physically stimulating, takes my head out of the game and it’s easier to get off with fantasy.