I am particularly embarrassed by my flat breasts and lack of curves but I’m trying to style myself accordingly and reach that cute but sexy vibe.

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    3·
    3 days ago

    I think this is very good, you have the build of a dancer or maybe long distance runner… smaller breasts are nothing to be ashamed of!

    Though, if I could perhaps offer some … take them of leave them, potential fashion suggestions:

    Ok, so, I have no idea what exactly is, to you, a… more mature version of what your teen fashion is / was… but assuming this is roughly it, a shorter skirt and thin crop top, exposed midriff:

    You could try to find an off shoulder ruffle top, with ruffle lengths that you find to be the appropriate length.

    Smaller chest, thinner/more fit upper body frame?

    Augment with something that gives a bit more volume, has a bit more flow, less angle, or breaks up the frame silhouette.

    Here are some examples of what I may be using the wrong words to describe:

    With this last one, you can see its full length down to the waist, but can be tied / knotted up to expose the midriff, as its a pretty thin material.

    Now, if you go with that, I would say you might want to go for a mini skirt with a slightly less busy fabric pattern… balancing out the increased visual busyness of a flowy ruffled top somewhat, and also, potentially making it easier to see the curves around your waist / hips / ass, which I am guessing are uh , rather striking.

    You could also maybe try short shorts instead of a mini skirt.

    Or, maybe instead of something for your waist thats more form fitting, you could go with shorts or a short/mini skirt that also has a bit more flow to it, is a bit looser as it tapers downward.

    You could also try maybe something like this as a kind of base concept for “teen but more mature” look:

    Concept:

    So, longer skirt, longer socks, graphic tee (whatever neck cut/plunge you prefer), jacket… where you have a basically 3 color schema + shoe color, theyre contrasting in hue, but somewhat muted in brightness levels.

    You could also wear or not wear the hat, maybe replace it with a beret, hair accesories, or even go with a ball cap and ponytail through the back for a ‘sporty’ look.

    Also of course, adjust skirt length and slim/loose fit as you deem appropriate.

    Or, if you do infact have the toned booty I suspect you do, maybe show that off with a more tightly hugging pair of shorts to short shorts instead, probably lessen the sock length a bit if you go with that… maybe?

    Shoes can honestly be almost anything outside of ‘very elegant’ or ‘stilletto heels’, I’d think, anything roughly casual or multi purpose; ankle cut boots, sneakers, slipons… probably not knee high boots or … crocs. Please not crocs.

    Now, with this, what we have is the jacket doing the uh, upper visual volume instead of a more voluminous top… as to what exactly, to you, captures a “teenager but grown up now” look… yeah, im not sure, but there are a lot of possible jacket materials and colors.

    Heck, you would, imo, be the kind of person who could well pull off a cropped jacket that exposes the midriff… but that may be escaping too far from what you may be going for?

    Examples

    This one has a bit more poof at the shoulders

    This one is a bit more plain, less “edgy”, but also imo the buttons are comically large, and the crop isn’t as severe

    Puffy crop jacket for weather / maximum poof!

    Potentially maximum edgy, “Don’t fuck with me” leather/pleather:

    • Nat1257@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      3 days ago

      Wow. Thank you for the detailed review. Sorry to disappoint but the back is as flat as the titties 😭 love your suggested styles but they look less glamour and feminine that what im trying to achieve…

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        1·
        3 days ago

        Ah ok, well, I tried.

        So… you’re going for… more feminine, more glamorous… but… also… fairly basic in terms of roughly a casual kind of teen dress?

        I guess I just don’t get it lol.

        What are the core elements you are going for here, the short slim skirt, the exposed middriff?

        Or are you just looking for some other entire kind of style that?

        I am confounded.

        Either way, that’s unfortunate to hear about your rear lol, but part of me doesn’t believe you, thinks you’re selling yourself short, and another part just wants to say “squats!”

        And of course, thank you for at least appreciating my attempt at suggesting styles, even if they are not what you are looking for =D

      • Jarix@lemmy.worldEnglish
        11·
        3 days ago

        A touch of strength training will give you more clothing options to work with. The top pics they suggested I think are great suggestions for a better fit for you atm. Even if the specific styles aren’t your taste, they do show what material choices can do for you so experimenting with more glamorous options in those styles will net good results for you

        The top in your photo doesn’t look like it’s sitting correctly, and draws attention in the wrong way because of the awkward fitment. Not sure if you have options for alterations, but finding a talented seamstress/tailor might work very well if your proportions are hard to dress, and might allow for styles that you like but aren’t fitting so well(even if it’s just the visual and not the fitment itself)

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    2·
    3 days ago

    I know this is mostly an attention-seeking post because this isn’t your first account, but if your goal truly is to present as “grown up” then I feel like I need to say that your outfit reads as exceptionally juvenile to me still. If we were to cross paths walking down the street, I would peg you as a college freshman/sophomore.

    • Nat1257@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      3 days ago

      Yes, attention seeking, but I think that’s fine as I am happy to meet people online and chat about shallow stuff. Of course that’s not for everybody and I don’t impose myself! Feedback received thanks :) what would you change to make it a bit less childish ?

  • Lemmycat@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    1·
    3 days ago

    I mean you’re hot, got sexy legs and a cute smile. Age, pregnancy, will change your body, might as well enjoy it in its current form

  • Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    2·
    3 days ago

    I mean, you’re gorgeous, so damn near anything will look good on you.

    I get the impression you’re actually looking for feedback on the outfit/style though.

    I dig what you’re doing. I might go a little longer with a skirt to accentuate your lines more, and then lean hard into the petite breast factor by going with something that will drape and cling, showing their shape tad more. Maybe something in a light silk if you’re into that particular cut of top.

    A similar type of fabric, but in a button-up you can leave the top three or four undone to give a glimpse of sternum and the very edge of the swell of your breasts, would also walk that line between showy and demure.

    In cooler weather, I’ve seen thin knits do wonders for a lean body type like yours. Surprisingly, flannel does a really nice effect as well. Just have to avoid the usual plaid since it doesn’t accentuate those long, graceful lines of your body type as well.